things you never see coming (continued).
So I called her at work the next day and told her that I love her.
I am not sure if that counts for me giving in, or me not standing my ground, but I don’t care. That is what is different with this relationship and all the others. I do not fell like I have to stand my ground and not talk to her until she apologizes. Who cares, I am better off when things are good at home. She has her own business; I am trying to start my own. We don’t need the funk in the house.
We talked about it, and there were some miscommunications and now we are back on track.
Isn’t that the goal anyway?
I am not sure if that counts for me giving in, or me not standing my ground, but I don’t care. That is what is different with this relationship and all the others. I do not fell like I have to stand my ground and not talk to her until she apologizes. Who cares, I am better off when things are good at home. She has her own business; I am trying to start my own. We don’t need the funk in the house.
We talked about it, and there were some miscommunications and now we are back on track.
Isn’t that the goal anyway?
posted by The Sonflower at 7:38 AM
1 Comments:
It's important that both of you remain solution oriented. If the relationship becomes one sided then she will not work on changing her current ways. This will continue to cause problems in the future since you've only cured the symptoms at the moment but you have not tackled the root of the problem (breakdown in dialogue). Communication and compromise are key and it takes both of you to make the effort!
I found this relationship goals site which sounds like a really great idea and I am looking at working on this myself. Check it out at http://www.coping.org/relations/goals.htm.
Also, I've created my own blog on the topic of motivation and would welcome your feedback and comments.
Best Wishes,
-Motivator
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